Social Phobia Therapy for Men in Richmond, VA
Stop Letting Fear Run the Show
“What in the hell is wrong with me?” That is the line most men repeat in their heads when social anxiety hits.
Your heart jumps. Your palms sweat. Your voice trembles before you even say a word. Your mind throws worst-case scenarios on a loop.
You worry that people will see you shake, notice the sweat, hear the tremor, and think you are weak. You try breathing exercises. You try talking yourself down. None of it matters because your body is already in overdrive.
For years you may have been shy or uncomfortable in groups, but lately it has gotten worse. Staff meetings. Job interviews. Social gatherings. Anything that puts eyes on you feels unbearable.
You bail on things you care about because the anxiety feels stronger than you are. Then you beat yourself up for it.
Social Anxiety Prevents You from Being Yourself
Everything becomes about appearing calm, not being calm. You worry not only about how you feel but about how you look feeling that way.
It is exhausting. And it steals opportunities from you day after day.
How Therapy Helps
This is not about “relaxation” or positive thinking. Burnout is not fixed by inspirational quotes, bubble baths, or forcing gratitude.
Burnout is a sign that something in your life is out of alignment. Therapy helps you slow down enough to see what is actually draining you and what needs to change.
In our work together, you will learn to:
- Understand the real causes of your burnout
- Relate to stress differently instead of letting it run your day
- Rebuild routines that support your energy, not drain it
- Set boundaries without guilt
- Restore balance between work, family, and your inner life
- Feel like yourself again
This is practical, grounded work. It’s not about talking in circles. It’s about getting your life back.
The Goal
A life that feels manageable again. More clarity. More energy. More presence. Less resentment. Less spiraling. Less putting out fires all day.
You deserve to feel like a human being, not a machine.
An ACT Approach to Social Anxiety Disorder Treatment
You have tried everything to control the symptoms:
- Showing up late
- Leaving early
- Avoiding eye contact
- People pleasing
- Benzo use
- Over-preparing
- “Fake it til you make it”
None of it fixes the problem because the strategy is always the same: avoid feeling anxious.
In ACT we flip that script. We stop trying to eliminate the anxiety and instead learn how to make room for it without letting it dictate your actions.
Together we will:
- See anxiety for what it is: a false alarm system that fires too easily
- Defuse from the catastrophic thoughts
- Build willingness to feel discomfort and act anyway
- Reduce avoidance and expand your life
- Strengthen confidence through action, not perfection
This Can Be Life Changing
You will stop letting anxiety choose your path. You will reconnect with your life instead of organizing it around fear. You will learn to tolerate discomfort and still do what matters.
It is incredibly empowering.
Schedule your free 15-minute consultation and let’s get started.
We offer social anxiety disorder treatment in Richmond and online across Virginia.
“Courage is not the absence of fear but the triumph over it.”
– Nelson Mandela